Today is going to be Tip Tuesday courtesy of Shari Hudspeth. One of my all time favorite trainers. Not only did I get to hear her at Thirty One’s National Conference but I also had the opportunity to meet her at a Leadership Retreat held by my Director, Hope Shortt.
I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again. And that is why I succeed.” – Michael Jordan
What makes a person successful? Think about it, the people who are looked up to as being successful in their field have a common thread…They have all made mistakes – many of them and often failed in their efforts to succeed. So, what makes us any different?
Why do we look at people who are tops in their field and only see the end result – fame, fortune, success? Have you ever said “I don’t want to set any goals because I’m afraid I won’t reach them.”? Maybe you didn’t say it outloud but I can almost bet at some point in your business career you thought it. For some, it is easy to toss the thought aside and move forward. For others, the task of changing the mindset is a little bit more difficult.
Fear of failure is normal. You are not alone if you are afraid to set goals, to step out and take the action that will make your dreams a reality. The big question we have to ask ourselves is, “Do I want it badly enough to do whatever it takes to get it?”
WOW! That last question hits home for me because there are some days that I don’t think I want it badly enough. I make excuses why I can’t pick up the phone, book parties, or recruit new consultants. Then there are days when I jump right in and don’t let anything stand in my way. What is the difference, right? I actually keep remembering what Shari says: “Failure is your path to success.”
So what, you messed up a call – I do it all of the time. The best laid plans go array, so what. You ask some one to book a party, they say no – so what. You stepped outside of your comfort zone. Haven’t we always been told “practice makes perfect”. Okay, so I am not shooting for perfection but I am practicing stepping out of my comfort zone. With each mistake, I get better and better. Things get a little easier – approaching potential customers or recruits, picking up the phone, or asking people to book a party.
I have tried many times to have my own business and each time I learned a lesson. First was the premature baby clothes and learning about retail sales. Next was being a consultant and learning how to share what I do to increase my business. Now with Thirty One, I am learning every day. I love being challenged despite the fact that Doubtful Debbie likes to stop by for a visit.
So, where are you ready to step out of your comfort zone to take the action that you need to so that you will go in the direction of your dreams? Take that first small step – STRETCH! If you fail, so what. Get up. Dust your self off and start again.
Remember the people who you admire as a success all failed during their life so why should you be any different. Don’t let another day go by without moving in the direction of your dreams. There is nobody more worthy of living their dreams than you are!
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!
You are capable of excellence, so go for it!