I love blogging, most days. Even though I love to write, I do get writer’s block. I have doubts – I wonder if anyone is reading it. Am I sharing too much personal stuff? Am I pushing my business too much? So many questions run through my mind. Doubts plague me. Like that should surprise you!
Then someone will reach out to me and says “thanks, that is what I needed to hear”. Those doubts melt away until the next time. I smile and say “you are welcome”. God has provided a “wink” moment to let me know that he is still in control.
When asked what my blog is about, I often hesitate because I am not sure just how to answer that question. My goal is and always has been to share my strength, hope and experiences so that others may benefit from my struggles. I want people to be able to get to know me – all sides of me – the good, the bad and yes, the ugly.
I have learned to stop worrying about who is reading my blog as well as what people think. Now, if I could apply that to the rest of my life, I would be ROCKIN’. I am who I am. I know that some will like me while others will run in the opposite direction. I know there will be critics. Through it all, I get through it.
I like to mix things up in my blog with things that I have learned in business along with life lessons combined with things about my family, friends and of course, my pink bubble. Are my details too intimate? The things I share in my blog are things that I would be comfortable sharing even if we were having a conversation face to face. I want to be honest and open with my readers. I want to create a relationship with them, as best I can over the internet.
I have heard from a few people that they want to start blogging but don’t know where to begin. I remember being there and my first blog was actually something dear to my heart. I shared about the bullying that my daughter endured in school. It was hard but I wanted people to understand that just because parents don’t know what is happening, it doesn’t mean that we are bad parents. Thank you Vanessa Coppes for the push, I will be eternally grateful.
Blogging has helped me to be confident. It has pushed me outside of my comfort zone. It has helped me face my fears by putting them out into the universe. Even though writing is a cleansing process for me, I try to use it as a way to help others to overcome their fears.
The truth is that I journaled everyday for years as a way to work through things. Blogging allows me to share what I have learned while encouraging others. Can you tell that today was one of those days that I wasn’t sure what to write?
If you are thinking about blogging, try it! Step out of your comfort zone. If you are already a blogger, post your link below so that we can all read your blog.
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!