Well, here it is the last day of the month. For those in direct sales, this is CRUNCH time. Now I don’t mean the sit-up kind – I mean that race to the last minute to meet our personal and team goals for the month.
“It is the way that we react to circumstances that determines our feelings.” ~Dale Carnegie
For the leaders in Thirty One, we are ending the month not only reaching for our personal and team goals but we are also working hard to earn that FREE trip to the Riviera Maya in September. Many have already earned the trip and I am so excited for them. There are some of us who are still dreaming BIG and reaching for the goal.
So, what does that have to do with a positive attitude? It is easy to feel envious as others are reaching their goals and seem to be growing at a pace that you have dreamed of for so long. It is easy to let Doubtful Debbie and Negative Nellie step in and take over, crushing your dreams and your enthusiasm.
Here are some things that I have learned recently – yes, just recently, that are helping me to be optimistic and continue pushing for the dream till the very last minute.
Focus on yourself. This has always been a tough one for me because I have been playing the comparison game since high school. The truth is that it is unproductive, takes up energy and in the end can send off some negative vides to the people around us. Realize that there is nothing you can to do to change events outside your control. What you can do, however, is find ways to make changes in your own life. Step out of your comfort zone. Read a self-development book. Fill your calendar with positive, productive things. Set small goals and reward yourself when you achieve them.
Things are not always what they seem. Does the grass look greener on the other side? Of course but the question is “Is it?”. The truth is that everyone’s life has both good and bad. It’s unrealistic to compare our own lives, which we know inside out, to the shiny, clean surface of someone else’s. But how many of us have done this?
Life is a marathon, not a sprint. Okay, so I am NOT a runner. I was always falling behind but I did always finish. The truth is the only one who I was falling behind were my own expectations. What about you? Do you except too much of yourself? Do you worry that you will never catch up to everyone else? We are each running our own marathon. We will be winners no matter when we cross the finish line.
Envy is an unproductive feeling but it’s perfectly natural and happens to everyone. The difference is how we deal with it. Will we let it consume our lives to the point of being unhealthy and make us helpless? Will it crush our positive attitude or will it cause us to fight harder for what we want?
I am learning to change the negative into a positive. I am taking steps to by putting out a detailed action plan and implementing it. I am learning from others’ successes and difficulties. I am applying them as lessons in my own life.
Time to CRUNCH numbers. I am positive that Personal Volume and Team sales goals will be met. I am not sure about the trip to Mexico but it is okay. I am learning that there is a reason for everything and there is always next year.
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!