What does Valentine’s Day mean to you? Flowers? Chocolate? A special dinner out?
For me, it is a day to celebrate the gift of love in my life that I have sometimes taken for granted.
Parents – I know you are thinking of course, they love us they are our parents, right? Many are not blessed with this gift of unconditional love. My parents have stood by and supported me even through the roughest of times.
My Daughter – Belinda. The day she was born, I finally GOT it! The 6 months of bed rest, the struggles with her biological dad, the days of being a struggling single mom – I got it! I understood about the sacrifices that a parent makes for their child no matter how it hurts. I understood that you would do anything to take care of and protect that little person. I LOVE the woman that she has grown up to be who wants to make the world a better place.
My hubby – a love story for the ages. When we met back in high school, he was this blond haired, guitar playing, quiet with a smile that gave me chills kind of guy. He was from Neptune and I was Ocean Township. Our schools were rivals and it didn’t take long for me to succumb to peer pressure. See, I was a people pleaser way back then too! We went our separate ways. We never talked again…
Fast forward 30 years, to the summer of 2002, a roadside memorial with the name “HOPE” on it sent this amazing man on a hunt to make sure it wasn’t me. Emailing led to dinner led to days off together and shall we say that the rest is history.
Life has tossed us some curve balls over the last 3 years. The health struggles that we thought we wouldn’t have until we were OLD-er. This overly independent woman is learning what the true meaning of “unconditional love” is all about from this amazing man. I know there are times that he believes that I don’t need him, that he is “a pain in my butt” but the truth is, I can’t imagine my life without him. He is my Ying to my Yang. He keeps me grounded when I am ready to fly in the wind. He is there to keep me optimistic when all I want to do is runaway and hide.
To day is the day that I honor LOVE. Remember that LOVE is an intense feeling with deep affection and we are meant to share it with others – family, friends or just a random act of kindness to a stranger. I challenge you to put a smile on someone’s face to day.
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!