Have you ever noticed, you are happiest when you are helping others, or making a difference in your own unique way?
Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. – Matthew 5:16
The last month, I have been struggling. Struggling with changes in my MS. Struggling in my business. Struggling with life. I have been pondering why this month, what makes this one different. I feel like my light has been dimming. Sounds weird, right? I don’t mean it is a morbid way, just not feeling like I am making a difference anymore in the lives of others. No, I’m not on a pity pot. I’m simply trying to adjust to the changes MS is making in my life. A reality which is sometimes tough to grasp. Talking with my sponsor the other day, she said “your brain my think things are jumbled but the words actually come out clearly and concisely.” Yup, I needed to hear those words because it is the exact reason I have been taking a backseat in things. Ok, I squirreled so, let’s get back to how you can let your light shit….
No matter what your purpose in life is, there is an underlying mission. It is all about living your life in a way people say to themselves, “There’s something different about her and I want to know how to have some of the peace, joy, and love in my own life.”
Here are five ways you can let your light shine:
1. Look for ways to be a blessing.
Letting your light shine means letting everything good within you come forth. There is so much negativity around us on a daily basis when good enters our environment, it brings light into the darkness. It is a refreshing burst of clean air. Be sensitive to the needs of others. Find ways to be a blessing—even simple ways such as being a courteous driver, thoughtful friend, and kind coworker. Small random acts of kindness do make a difference.
2. Refuse to be judgmental.
One of the fastest ways to turn people off – in business or in your life is to judge them. A person can done wrong without condemning them for it. Honestly, I have made mistakes during my addiction BUT I was glad people did not judge me. They gave me chance. Honestly, we have all done things we need to be forgiven for, so be merciful to others. Embrace and support those you want to judge when they are trying to do better.
3. Speak up for what is just.
Speak up for what is just—not right. Do you confuse the two of these? I know I do! Focus more on being just so those who cross your path are better off for having done so. At work, in your business or in a personal situation, when others are being cheated, disrespected, or done a disservice, let your light shine and speak up. You can do it in a direct, calm, straightforward, and nonjudgmental way. Of course, the “old social worker/advocate” in me is sometimes far from calm. LOL!
4. Let go of the desire to fit in.
Maybe this is part of why my light has dimmed this month….. I’m a proverbial people-pleaser. As the MS effects more of my life, I struggle to find a place to fit in. I never thought about how difficult it is for my light to shine when I feel like I need to fit in everywhere I go. Sometimes, people think I am odd just because I am smiling and talking to everyone. I need to focus more on being a symbol of truth and love on a daily basis instead of trying to fit in. What about you?
5. Don’t hide your spiritual life.
This may be a hard one for some. For me, I have learned my Higher Power is central to everything in my life. When I pretend that is not the case, my light dims. It is by his grace, I have survived the craziness of my life. I am not saying you need a Bible on your desk or a preacher’s robe to share your faith with others. When the chance comes to tell people where your strength comes from in difficult times, or to acknowledge how your Higher Power has protected or blessed you, be honest. Your faith is a part of who you are. When you free yourself to be who you are, you also free others to be who they truly are.
My Challenge to you is to identify one way you will share your light this week. Then set out to be a symbol of love and light in the world… Share with us…..
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!