I have just come home from an AMAZING Thirty One National Conference. This is just a “few” of the friends that I got to hang out with on The Beacon of Hope team. I am reflecting on all that I heard and realize that this was life changing in so many ways for me.
This year’s theme was “What Matters Most?”. If you were asked that question, how would you answer it. Would you say: Family, Faith, Friends, kids, work, travel, or giving back? For me, it is faith, family and friends. But I realized that if I looked at where I spend most of my time, it was definitely NOT in that order OR on those 3 things.
What about you…. do you spend your time on the things that matter most to you? Are you juggling lots of balls (tasks)? At the end of the day, is your energy drained and you have nothing to give to the things that matter most? I have been there. I know what that is like. I actually thought that when I left my crazy full-time job things would be different. I would have time for the 3 things that matter most to me. WOW! Was this weekend an eye opener when I realized that I was so far from where I wanted to be.
I know that many of you have heard of vision boards and if you are like me, maybe you have been unsure what to put there. Maybe you have even avoided them. Maybe you put the things on there that you “thought” should be there. Maybe your fears have kept you from dreaming BIG. Sound familiar? Maybe those Pinterest boards or Instagram pictures have you comparing your dreams to that of others.
Let’s change the picture (actually, the mind set). How many of you have made scrapbooks of your kids, family vacations, life accomplishments, etc? Things that have happened in the past that we want to cherish their memory, right? What if you were to do a scrapbook of the future? I can see the eyes roll as well as the doubts and negativity creeping in. HOLD ON!!! Let’s break it down into 4 sections:
What if you were to visualize (DREAM) where you want to be in each of these areas? Set aside about 30 minutes for each one and start making notes or flipping through magazines for ideas. Focus on one at a time.
Relationships: Not in a relationship, do you long for one? If so, what would that person be like? What qualities would he/she possess? Are you in a relationship, do you want to get married? Are you married, what kind of relationship do you want with your spouse? Is your relationship having some rough spots, what would you like to have happen?
Business: Do you have your own business (or would you like one)? Do you have a career – what is your goal, where do you want to grow? If you want your own business, why is it important to you? What would it look like?
Finances: Are you in debt and want to pay it off? Do you want to own a house? What would it look like? Do you want money to travel? Travel to where? Do you want to make a difference in the lives of others – what would that look like?
Kids: Do you have them or do you want them? What would you like their life to look like growing up?
For some this may seem like a silly exercise BUT did you know that if you HEART wants it your HEAD will get you there. It is true! Your current circumstances DO NOT control your dreams. Your dreams are YOUR DREAMS! They are not anyone else’s. Others may think they are silly. Who cares? They are YOUR DREAMS! You need to BELIEVE that all things are possible.
I challenge you to make your own scrapbook of the FUTURE! Share it with us. I am headed out to find some magazines because we don’t get any at the house. I am read to get my scrapbook together so my head will start heading to where my heart wants to be.
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!